Be prepared for some organizations and contact info to be out of date on any such list.
A listing does not constitute a recommendation.
Finding Other Kinksters and Organizations
There are always other kinky people near you. However, they may be rather closeted, even to themselves, and that makes them harder to find. Here are some suggestions for kinky folk having trouble finding others nearby.
Lists of Organizations
There are several on-line attempts at comprehensive lists of kinky organizations.
Among the best are under:
Social Networking search
Join fetlife.com. Fetlife is a free, all-adult, all-BDSM site. In the search box, enter your geography, e.g. New-Orleans. This will produce lists of individuals, events, and discussion groups. From here you can find local face-to-face events and organizations.
You could also try tribe.net, a vanilla, all-ages site where many kinksters used to hang out.
Find a local gay bar. People there are more likely to know about, and talk about, the leather scene. There's often a weekly or monthly leather night at gay clubs. If there's no straight or pansexual clubs, then everyone (straight, bi, lesbian, trans, etc.) will be at the local gay bar's leather night.
Broaden your search, to include other non-mainstream sexualities, e.g. "polyamory", "tantra", "swinger", "sacred-sexuality", "queer". Most people in these groups won't be into leather, but some will know leather folk.
Get to know people in these groups first, don't just show up demanding addresses like an investigator, journalist or stalker.
One of the better lists of events is at TheBdsmEventsPage.com
Find the on-line events listings for events nearest to you. Even if most events are far away, this is where your more local events will eventually appear. Also, some of the far away events may be worth the travel.
You probably should do this from a kink-specific email account and scene name, rather than from your work or home account and vanilla name. Later you can decide to out yourself, if you like.
Some better places to host your list for free are:
Which one is best seems to vary over time, and according to your purposes. In our case, as we grew, we eventually created a list on all of them, using Tribe mainly for discussion, and Google/Yahoo mainly for announcements.See also starting_community.