Sketches of a Primal Erotic Party

As you stroll around a Primal Party, some scenes you might notice include:

• A couple is on a prominent bench, doing gentle kissing and foreplay, in emotionally deep and intense ways. The activities seem ordinary, but the energy is intense.

• A group of playful adults are letting their inner children out. By finger painting. Each other.

• A blindfolded guy offers oral sex to any takers. Everyone involved seems to be having a good time.

• In the social area, friends are mingling unselfconsciously. Some are naked, some are well-dressed. No one is ordinary. No one is leering.

• A bunch of men have set up in an area, playing together. The energy goes back and forth as different guys get busy and others enjoy watching. Even though most of the action is in twos and threes, there's a strong feeling of community and togetherness. A few female admirers, some with their boyfriends/girlfriends, are nearby, getting turned on and having sex.

• A couple is wearing nothing but decorative bondage rope. They're walking around, but it's tricky, since they're roped together.

• A group of women are working around a table. Each one takes a turn in the middle and the others give her full attention.

• A group of about eight young people are cavorting in an area. It's hard to tell who's doing whom. There seems no distinction between the sex and the romping. They're laughter a lot.

• A dancer moves around the space, but acts quite differently from cabaret dancers. The dancer is not dancing for pay or tips, but rather as an expression of personal sexuality. It's very honest and powerful, yet subtly seductive.

• A couple is offering sensual massages.

• A group of trans folk and their friends are playing together. They're having a great time. It feels like one big family.

• A woman asks a male friend for cock-sucking tips, which she immediately tries on her boyfriend. Soon they're taking turns on her boyfriend. Education is wonderful.

• A woman is fisting her girlfriend and her boyfriend at the same time, one on each hand.

• When the music strikes them, various people dance wherever there is room.

• A group of butch-presenting guys, including trans men, drag kings, and cisgendered guys are chatting and joking, doing male bondage.

• After a while, a pair of femme-presenting people join the guys, and seem to be flirting with everyone. There is relaxed, witty banter.

• A couple new to sex clubs gradually moves around taking it all in. From time to time they do a lot of kissing and foreplay, but still plan to save their fucking for the privacy of home.

• A gay guy and a lesbian are having sex together. Neither plays with het folk. Queer things happen.

• Some guys wearing cock rings have been walking around hard all night.

• Someone starts to orgasm in one corner. A wave of orgasms ripples through the room. Apparently orgasms are contagious.

Sexuality is a Primal force. This party is a celebration of sexuality in its many forms. We like variety and imagination.